China is a country that has long been known for its ceremonies and etiquette through the ages. However, it can be something of a culture shock when it comes to the differences between the social niceties between the country and the western world. The following is an introduction to the daily manners and courtesies of social life in China.
An introduction is the first step to establish an interpersonal relationship. A successful introduction makes the people being introduced feel closer and creates a good first impression.
With regard to introducing yourself there is little difference between China and elsewhere. It is considered polite to give your full name, job positions and the place you work for, especially on more formal occasions. Only your full name with a simple greeting is enough on informal occasions:
|Chinese Pinyin||Chinese||The same meaning in English|
|Ni Hao, Wo Jiao...||你好, 我叫......||Hello/Hi, I'm...|
|Ni Hao, Wo Shi...||你好, 我是......|
|Ni Hao, Wo De Ming Zi Shi...||你好, 我的名字是......||Hello/Hi, My name is...|
|Through introductions, the four |
seniors become good friends.
If someone is making the introductions, to introduce your self is considered disrespectful. So when it is your turn to be introduced, stand up, smile and look at the people also being introduced with ease. After being introduced, you can shake hands with each other and give mutual greetings, sometimes with an exchange of calling cards.
Introduce to others
In China, there are many strict conventional rules on introduction to others:
a. The junior should be introduced to the senior first;
b. The male should be introduced to the female first;
c. The inferior should be introduced to the superior first;
d. The host should be introduced to the guest first.
These ways of introduction is to show high respect to the senior, the female, the superior and the guest. However, if you are in a generally more informal occasion, the introduction to others can be less ceremonious.
Further Reading : Chinese Names
I am the wife and will be meeting him tomorrow when my husband brings him to our home. We have arranged hotel for him to stay in not in our home. We have a hobby farm with dogs peacocks etc and thought others better to have home stay in nearby gorgeous hotel He has brought a gift for me
Do I need to have a gift for him?
What is a good gift?
Is it okay we had him
Stay at the hotel not our farm house
As for where is better to stay, if I were him, I would feel being cared staying in grandpa's home rather than in a hotel. And I think it's the opinion of most Chinese. Of course, it's another thing if there is no extra bedroom. But it also depends. As you mentioned he is a successful businessman, maybe he will feel more comfortable in a hotel on him own.