Hi, I'm a wood pig born in 23 May 1995. I still live with my parents, I have no job and no social life. I have been dealing with heavy depression since last year but I'm trying my best to overcome it and so far it's been going well. I feel lost, I do not know what to do with myself because every opportunity that appears it never lasts for very long, this is my second year doing nothing and it is very frustrating because I want to live my life. I have no money to move to a different city. I just want to know what am I doing wrong? Because I think I've reached my last straw and I'm about to give up and watch my life pass me by. I cannot do this anymore, this life thing that is.
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Answered by
Dalion | Jul. 20, 2022 20:57
Please don’t give up love strong not weak the winners never give up that’s how they become winners by losing and learning stay smart stay aggressive and believe in god an idiot can become rich as long as god has decided that .
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Kd | Jul. 30, 2022 06:49
I feel the same way , but we must keep going bro. #WoodPig
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Hi I’m Tori | Sep. 01, 2022 00:21
Ok, you are not alone I promise. Myself & three other wood pigs are on the same boat. Of course not all wood pigs will be this way but know you’re not alone. I’m serious. I have two small sons and just got out of a very abusive marriage and walked away from everything just to have my peace. I used to struggle with depression, heavily, until I freed myself. I’m broke, jobless, I’m also living back with parents along with my boys. I’m thankful I’ve been able to live here and heal the areas I need plus I think we’re all going through a phase of lots of major changes. I know I’ve been trying to make the most of the time I’m not working and putting it towards self-discovery and also looking into what I am to do, should do, want to do, and can do! Im tired of being broke, but I’m patient. I would absolutely advise for you to self care, dig deeper, change of perspective would be best! I no longer suffer from depression and I’ve struggled with it for 25 years! 26 going into 27 after my divorce and and freeing myself and knowing myself better is what helped me achieve that. Have faith, have hope, work on yourself within yourself and outside religion contexts do talk to God, he’s real, he is whatever name you want to call him or believe in. Know that and have faith!
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Mingz | Sep. 15, 2022 15:30
Love love love !! I feel so connected with all of your replies. This is love ♥️
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Princes sarah garganta | Sep. 24, 2022 21:15
Actuall im year of the pig and i can say that this is right at my middle age 25 i achieve gold like having a own house and lot even i dont had a good job so i can say dont give up cheer up you can achieve your dreams too
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Jay | Sep. 27, 2022 17:40
I’m also going through the same, but I refuse to give up. I just feel deep down that I was born to do something great/grand. I feel greatness in me and I want to bring that greatness forward.
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Engr Paul | Oct. 31, 2022 19:31
You lacked hardwork, risk and confidence dealing such unexpected problems.
I am 1995 pig. I was born poor, I worked harder and harder and hardest to hardest. I gain such rewards of my blood and sweat.
I trust God most of the time rather than this zodiac signs.
Pray Hard, Work Harder, Endure Hardest!
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Jacob | Nov. 11, 2022 17:36
Keep your head high, fellow wood pig. I dealt with the same struggle a few years ago. Just don’t search too hard for opportunity, or it will never come to you. If you have nothing to lose, think that way. Don’t be afraid to try a new job. You’ll know when you’ve found the right opportunity, and you’ll work hard to stand out and get big promotions. Be honest about the opportunity of advancement too. If it’s not there, leave and find a different job. Keep trying and never give up. I wish you well
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anon | Dec. 27, 2022 14:09
Have a general form of a goal in mind and think of a realistic plan to realize that goal. Once you take the first big step into making that goal a reality you will eventually achieve it. With our year, luck is on our side, but I think that luck skill cannot be activated if you don't trigger something that make use of the luck.
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Bore | Jan. 02, 2023 02:45
Wow, I’m also a wood pig born in 1995 and I’m in the same situation as you. No job, don’t know what to do with my life or who I want to be. I used to be so enthusiastic about making a difference but not anymore. Is it a pig thing?
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Austin | Jan. 22, 2023 07:53
I’m in the exact same position, and my birthday is only two days before yours. I had to drop out of university because I became sick and have spent the last 6 years trying to heal myself to no avail. I have no purpose, and no career path to start on. It’s a very lonely feeling because as a man without a career you become essential undatable, and I feel like I’m now sitting and watching my best years pass me by with no way of being able to start my life. It’s very confusing and empty.
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Prince Ace | Jul. 04, 2023 11:21
Also a wood pig born, 11th June 1995. I can relate well with all your replies. I just want to say life is a race and obviously you can't win but it's how you lived it that determines the result and reward. Let's keep loving and pray to God to give us what he has planned. Peace.
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Rick | Jul. 04, 2023 19:29
Hey man I'm Rick I'm from Thailand. 1995 wood pig brother we are connected. I did go through deep depression during my 20 but I found spirituality and honestly if I don't try to keep up with my practices I still go through it man. And for job I open a dog farm breeding french bulldog and American bully. I'm lazy as shit I'm addicted to weed. I hate my self all the time. Idk if it's the year thing but I feel like we all are experiencing the same shit. And yes I have like no money in my bank.
Reply to me please. Say anything bro
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Ivy | Sep. 05, 2023 11:20
Wow we are all in this together! 🥲
I am also without a job. Also wood pig. But im still optimistic. I lost my corporate job back in the pademic. It was actually taxing on my mental health. Now that im home, i have gain clarity on what I wnat to do with my life. Its just a matter of learning n trying something new. We cant be idle. We need to look for opportunity and position in preparation for the future possibility. Anything can happen, Trust God has your back. Have alil faith n work on building skills.
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Sarah | Oct. 31, 2023 11:15
Heyy! I’m a fellow wood pig, 1995 & I can totally relate. I breed cats & smoke loads of weed also. I’ve gone through huge bouts of depression my whole life, never quite found stability but I’m so financially driven so it’s difficult to keep up. Definitely pig vibes my friend, we have that laziness in us that we struggle to shift.
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Chrissy | Nov. 13, 2023 03:04
I also am living back with parents after abusive relationship with my boys. No job no money life is a mess but I feel I am meant to be somebody that uplifts others. I have a big purpose and I am depressed and at my lowest yet but I have faith and I will get through so will all of u.
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Cat | Nov. 19, 2023 14:52
Try St Johns Wort for depression. Get Baptized in water to clear away the stagnation. Meditate in the morning and before you go to bed at night about what brings you the most happiness. Dont focus your mind on the negative. Control your thoughts and do not allow them to control you. Practice this. Control your thoughts. Dont beat yourself up over not having a job. GO GET ONE. One day at a time. Get off the net and turn your day into moving forward. Friends will come when you get out and push yourself toward your goals. God Bless.
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MBH | Feb. 14, 2024 14:38
DO NOT LET LIFE PASS YOU BY...
As you can see most posts here are extremely supportive and you need to keep up the faith, keep moving. Find a job, not matter what it is, just do it. Even if it doesn't pay well, at least it's income until something better comes along. Work with conviction and meet people with a passion. You'll never know where you'll find that lifelong friend or soulmate. It's hard only if you don't try.
*A year from now what will you wish you had done today?
- Liam Linisong
*Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain...
- Vivian Greene
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Fortitude | Feb. 15, 2024 03:16
I have actually found that 1995 children are different, take to tech much sooner but are people pleasers or become aloof, depressed, procrastinate, you are however a new race, in a new race to get people to change, your job is not to make a fortune, you can though, your job is simply to get generational debt cleared, every day you are alive, you make a difference to your future tribe, you are the change, and your off spring will benefit from this. Also you can if you want with intention and sober thoughts send people home or tell them to go home, not necessarily to their departed, but you can tel them that you will hold space for them to go home. You are unique, you have purpose, and everyday you contribute.
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manny | Mar. 04, 2024 07:00
early morning runs will do wonders for your headspace. im not jking btw. it helps.
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Austin | Jun. 07, 2024 01:37
Holy crap I am exactly the same! There's gotta be something about being this age in this time period with this birth year that leaves people with the same problems. I want to do what God wants me to do and change the world but I don't know what when or how and haven't felt anything from God. Living with my parents just got a job after 5 months unemployed, I've fallen into depression and selfhatred from disappointed expectations for my life. It's a vicious cycle. Sending love to all of you.
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T eye | Jul. 11, 2024 13:51
I know its late but thought i'd reply too. I am in the same situation... 3 years ago I caught my baby mother cheating (denied but admitted later on...), ended up going back after 4months because work was 10min walk away and got to see daughter everyday (we were still single and want making that mistake). Few months later my dad died, told to be out the house and never went back to work... quit? fired? same to me. ever since i've been at my mums... learning new skills but none have been successful - how to trade & have been on charts everyday - music - dance(have for the last 10years)... purposely stayed in away from distractions & doing the wrong things but now im currently stuck not knowing what to do, where to go, how to move forward... feel like its all there in my finger tips but nothings clicking. Though i always say to people feeling low "You have to go through the lowest of the lows to know the highest of the highs", its getting to that point where i'm contemplating being average and doing what people think/do, however i know deep within that im far from average in practically every way, you know?
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T eye | Jul. 11, 2024 13:58
For me, ever since i was younger (under 10) it was either to be a footballer or a musician... groin problems prevented me (brother made it pro so have no doubt i could've too)... music wise i'm actively working on it daily but nothings clicking... Been dancing 10 years - started tiktok and on there daily... got 250k views in the last 30 days which i find a milestone as its a love or hate style but now looking to do music in that genre... so fingers crossed its all part of the plan
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T eye | Jul. 11, 2024 14:18
Lets pretend theres a bullseye&100 emoji. I feel you completely! me personally i feel its through my music, but could be with my speech, the way i see and the perspective im able to make others aware of... could be government, could be taking down government, but to help the people.
I'm friendless, by choice... have people i can contact but i am on my purpose so don't want pointless conversations/gossip... dont want to use people to benefit my situation (homeless) and dont want to contact them whilst im in my down/"i need help" mindset as im aware on that on that side of the spectrum...
Its hard but know its all part of the journey, maybe its just a cycle for us and WE ALL catch out break/whatever we're looking for in the very near future!! seen something on paper specifically for me when i was born that mid life is where it all changes for me, fingers crossed and Love to all <3
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KEYS | Jul. 14, 2024 12:16
H FRIEND WE SHARE THE SAME BIRTHDAY I RECCOMEND YOU GET INTO CHARITY/ VOLUNTEER WORK OR SOME KIND OF MEDICAL CARE LIKE AN EMS OR NURSE WE ARE SO KIND AND GENEROUS THIS PATH IS BEST FOR OUR HAPPINESS AND AVOIDING OUR PHASES OF DEPRESSION, TRUST ME LOOK INTO IT ♥ ALSO LIVE IN YOUR TRUTH YOU GOT THIS BOUNDARIES ARE YOUR BESTFRIEND! YOU GOT THIS AND DONT BE PEOPLE PLEASING! THERE IS ONLY ONE OF YOU GOOD LUCK TWIN :D
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Vincent Jones | Aug. 19, 2024 09:54
May GOD BLESS YOU I’m 09/03/1995 & I can’t easily relate to you and all of the wood pig traits ,Keep pushing in life forreal and I pray you over come all of the Odds